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When your kid is stuck in panic after making a mistake...

19 June 2025

When your kid is stuck in panic after making a mistake...

It took me 1 minute, 21 seconds to read this

you know when you make a mistake that feels so massive your whole life will be shaped by it for the rest of time?

Maybe you haven't felt like that in a while, perhaps age has given you a little more perspective.

But when you're a kid (and an adult, sometimes, quite frankly) this is what it can feel like.

So here's a really nice book to help.

When your kid is stuck in panic after making a mistake...
When your kid is stuck in panic after making a mistake...
When your kid is stuck in panic after making a mistake...

A Whale of a Mistake

Ioana Hobai

(Page Street Kids)

Amazing illustrations ✔️

Excellent conversation starter ✔️

What I love about this book is that it addresses the really RUBBISH feelings that can come up when we make a mistake.

That feeling of total despair that nothing will be the same again, or that we've done something so disastrous we will never be able to redeem ourselves.

Those are really horrible things to feel, on top of already feeling bad that you made the actual mistake, right?

So this book is perfect for opening up conversations about the icky feelings that might come up after making a mistake... and how to ride them through.

It's perfect if your child tends to get 'stuck' in the aftermath of a mistake.

Whether you’re reading this together at bedtime or chatting about it over breakfast, I hope it helps you and your child feel a little less alone with those tricky feelings. Mistakes are part of being human - and talking about them is how we grow.

When your kid is stuck in panic after making a mistake...

You’re doing better than you think,

Becca

ps. You can hit reply and let me know your thoughts or questions any time. You know how much I love talking to parents and problem-solving. I'm always here!

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When your kid is stuck in panic after making a mistake...

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A Whale of a Mistake

Ioana Hobai

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